• We will meet each other in my upcoming trip to: Odessa - Nikolaev – Kherson July 11 to 22nd. • If we decide we have chemistry then we agree to spend enough time with each other during my visit to make the decision that we want to give it a “go”, with every hope that it will work out, but with both of us understanding what to do if it doesn’t. • While I would not want you to take any sort of real job, I think the best way to get you over here without the limitations of a marriage visa is a work visa. This way we don’t have a gun to our heads to make a decision in 90 days and we can just enjoy getting to know each other without that pressure. • While my highest hope is for us to get married, if it does not happen, of course I would do everything I could to help you find a legitimate job so you could stay in the country, and also, support you for a reasonable period of time while you are job hunting. The conclusion that I have come to is that if I meet someone and have great chemistry with them and I think they could be the one, I am willing to pull the trigger and move in with that person, live like a husband and wife, to see how it works out.