I don’t believe in soul mates, I guess I’m not a hopeless romantic but rather a pragmatist who knows that a healthy relationship requires common interests, emotional connection, physical attraction and the ability to invest yourself emotionally (i.e. committing to someone). I am however open to being proven wrong… So if you can pick up on the subtle flavours in wine (and no, coffee chocolate pilotage does not count), can put a decent meal together without following a recipe or calling your mom, can sit quietly and listen to the night sounds in the bush without checking your phone every 5 minutes, debate issues without fear of getting some resistance, hold hands in public, get on with my mom and have an open mind, adventurous enough to take an unplanned trip to some unheard-of dorpie to check out the local bar, we have a good start. If you feel like you are the kind of guy I can ride into the sunset with, get in touch.