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Decent Lady - where is my true love???

Irma
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

40 Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa

Female / Divorced / ID: 18360

Seeking Male 30 - 45 living in South Africa For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Irma

She's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - sometimes live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Christian
Christian

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

If you ever met someone that appeared to be charming, funny, tantalizing, and intelligent, it's most probably me. I’m usually live in my own mind, filled with a world of ideas. Although I seems to possess a certain detached quality and may sometimes come across as removed from feelings, I’m a w...
If you ever met someone that appeared to be charming, funny, tantalizing, and intelligent, it's most probably me. I’m usually live in my own mind, filled with a world of ideas. Although I seems to possess a certain detached quality and may sometimes come across as removed from feelings, I’m a warm, outgoing, and very concerned with others. These Humanitarians often are wary of emotion and like to deal rationally with life. Optimism is a big part of my nature, along with the knack of friendliness and the mastery of flirtation. If you want to get my attention, you will need to intellectually stimulate me. Good conversation, including debates are a favorite past time of me. Open minded, I can accept criticism and understand others perceptions about things. If you have a problem, I’m always willing to listen, though after awhile, enough is enough. Tolerance is a big part of my temperament. I’m slow to take offense, never jealous and never over emotional. When planning a date with me, you don't have to go out of your way to impress me. Just about anything pleases me. From sharing a picnic lunch to a candle lit dinner, Chinese or Mexican, it doesn't matter, as long as variety is on the menu. In time, a relationship can grow, built on trust. Never nag me about a mistake. A mistake is unimportant to me, so don't harp on it. If I’m constantly told what is wrong, I will begin to feel unappreciated and the relationship can get rocky. In any relationship, I may find it hard to give of myself but will always remain loyal and devoted to a worthy partner. When I make a promise, it's usually never broken. However, if you become demanding, and critical, or playing mind-games with me, I may start to wonder elsewhere. I want a partner to share in the adventures, along with the challenges, that life has to offer. Life with me will never be boring.
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Seeking

Easy-going, fun, loving, decent, caring, trustworthy,down to earth, independent, love kids. A man that knows how to treat a lady and don't have time for games as I'm tired of that.
Easy-going, fun, loving, decent, caring, trustworthy,down to earth, independent, love kids. A man that knows how to treat a lady and don't have time for games as I'm tired of that.

More About Me

Irma

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
40
30 - 45
Lives in:
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa
South Africa
Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'1" (155 cm)
Any
Weight:
65 kg (143 lb)
79 kg (174 lb) - 130 kg (286 lb)
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Any
Facial hair:
N/A
Short Beard, Sideburns, Clean Shaven
Best feature:
My Smile
My Smile
Body art:
Earrings
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Attractive, Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single, Divorced
Have children:
Yes - sometimes live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
0, 1, 2
Oldest child:
6
Any
Youngest child:
2
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Dog,Cat,No Pets
No Pets
Occupation:
IT / Communications
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Full Time
Income:
R14,001 - R21,000 ZAR
R28,001 - R70,000 ZAR +
Home type:
House
Town house
Living situation:
Live with family
Live with family

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
South Africa
South Africa
Education:
Vocational College
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English,Afrikaans
English, Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian
Christian
Star sign:
Aquarius
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Ballet, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Education, Fashion Events, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Karaoke / Sing-along, Music (Listening), Meditation, Museums / Galleries, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Volunteering, Watching Sports, Wine Tasting

Food:

Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Soul Food, Indian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Continental, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican

Music:

Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, R'n'B / Hip Hop, World

Sport:

Aerobics, Cricket, Gymnastics, Horse Riding, Motor Sports, Rugby, Walking, Wrestling

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Fast & the Furious, Comedy shows of Trevor Noah, Why did I get married, mostly movies from Tylor Perry.

Favorite Book:

Not without my sister... its a nice book of how 3 sisters has suffered ... been abused and they've struggled to put an end to it.

Favorite Food:

I love curry, spicy food, I'm not so much of a chicken fan, most people don't clean and cook it proper. But otherwise I'm easy going.

Favorite Music:

A mixture of everything can help if it's good music. R&B, House, Classic, etc.

Dress Style:

If I go to work, I dress smart and proffessional. If I am at home, i want to be comfy! Kick out the shoes and relax! But always look good.

Humor:

I'm an honest person, dependingly on my mood and the person i'm with. But when I'm with my younger sisters I"m sweet 18, HAVE LOTS OF FUN! LOL dancing!

Hobbies & Interests:

like reading, movies, music. I also have a passion to serve the community... kids that don't have much. Like to see the smiles on their faces when you give them gifts.

Travelled:

I haven't travelled out of South Africa yet, but would love to go to Paris one day.

Cultural Adaption:

I've dated guys with different culture, I can easily adapt if he can too. AFTER ALL, IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE!

Romance:

A weekend at a Hotel Spa, whereby my partner and I will be pampered... and I pamper him more ;-) *blushing*!

Personality:

I have an open personality, you can read my just by looking at my eye ... *smile*

My Perfect Match is:

easy going person, should be moody because I am (lol), should love kids as I have 2 kids. He should be a family man, but should also be able to have some fun! Not just sit at home the whole time. Explore new things... lol *blushing*

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