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Craig
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48 Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa

Male / Divorced / ID: 185935

Seeking Female 28 - 43 living within 250 kms of Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Quick Overview

Craig

He's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Any

Have children:

No
Yes - sometimes live at home, Yes - don't live at home, No

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Other
Any

Member Overview

I have been told that I'm handsome. I am a VERY different,unique person and can be very difficult but,if I get the one that I'm REALLY looking for I will absolutely adore you.I m unfortunately very sensitive emotionally and very idealistic.I m a kind of person who (IF you don t mind)would actually s...
I have been told that I'm handsome. I am a VERY different,unique person and can be very difficult but,if I get the one that I'm REALLY looking for I will absolutely adore you.I m unfortunately very sensitive emotionally and very idealistic.I m a kind of person who (IF you don t mind)would actually spend days and nights just studying you and pondering how lucky i got to get SUCH a beautiful woman with SUCH beautiful person(this is IF we "gel")!I also like to surprise my woman a lot just to gladden her heart and make her joyful.If you genuinely like compliments as well then I'd like to hear from you.I also find it a little offensive when woman is "smarter" than I,it makes me feel a little "awkward" so I don't mind if she isn't VERY clever.I'm ALSO NOT very a sporty person at all but don't mind playing volleyball and table tennis and don't really like much traveling.I'm looking more for a home maker than one who is seriously career orientated.She must have attitude "I'll work ONLY if my husband CANNOT provide" or "I'll work so we can survive,otherwise I'd like to be at home",this would be "wow" 4me ;) I DO lack a bit in self confidence though.I like to also compliment and have control over her.I think (because of my current emotional status) I can be rather mentally abusive at times (especially if I'm tired) but NEVER physically abusive.If I meet the "right" girl there are NO limits as to how I will treat her (in good way).There might even be chance that she would need to DRIVE everywhere because I just wouldn't be able to concentrate on the road because ALL my focus will be on HER (yes...I'm NOT joking here!). I'm also pretty straight forward, honest and sincere (oh and don't forget the humor, I LOVE to laugh even at my OWN silly jokes so I'm hoping you won't me also ACTING a little silly at times, hey, I CAN be crazy sometimes lol)I CAN be rather introverted too a lot Music wise I like to go to dance clubs (JUST for the music) and rock music
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Seeking

Ok, here's the shortened version of what I'm looking for: I'm looking for a typical 50's kind of relationship where she is obedient and submissive, asking for permission like I "own" her and according to her I'm her "master", I will adore and appreciate this kind of woman because of her qualities),...
Ok, here's the shortened version of what I'm looking for: I'm looking for a typical 50's kind of relationship where she is obedient and submissive, asking for permission like I "own" her and according to her I'm her "master", I will adore and appreciate this kind of woman because of her qualities), to her, even if she's SMART her marriage to me comes first (I won't mind if she's smart either) Right, now for the long version ;) I am ACTUALLY wanting to go the ukraine because the women there make VERY good wives!Now, if I can get either a Ukrainian WITH the values they have who's living here (for now) OR a girl WITH such values IN them. She needs to be VERY pretty physically and have a cute, beautiful personality (similar to Katie Holmes-Tom Cruise's wife).I'm looking for that "special" kind of girl,one who(for example)is rich but would STILL not mind doing dishes after a meal,doesn't mind cooking and keeping home,good sense of humor.Yes,I WOULD like to have a "trophy" as well as a convenience,I want her to be my WOMAN in the day and my personal lover at night (I'm basically looking for a "nun" in the day),she needs to be VERY generous and well responsive in bed as well as in other places.I DON'T LIKE domineering,cheeky,stubborn or assertive women!!someone who is quite reserved(NO chatter boxes and women who over-reacts!) but even though she looks up to me still knows how to make a champion out of me.I would prefer (and this IS important) a woman who REALLY enjoys compliments and they REALLY MEAN something to her ;) I would spend some nights alone with you (no TV or anything),just two of us at home and I focus on you and my luck to have you, kissing you,feeling your hair,,rubbing and feeling your breasts,perhaps(but not necessarily)end up in bed.I don't want nag,woman who "EXPECTS" something and not strong personality(only when I need emotional comfort and can do so in way that I'd need as sometimes I DO, someone who can give me STRONG support).I would to want spend nights alone with you just studying you;if you would enjoy this then respond ;) Have child?No problem,just carry on being a GOOD woman for ME.You should have attitude if asked about divorce: "I would rather compromise a LOT instead! I'm looking for someone who WON'T mind being extremely submissive who is patient,calm and VERY easy going.She needs to know that she is going to have to be very obedient to her man no matter WHAT he tells her to do because as for me it's a BIG turn on, but I DON'T mind if you have your own child (preferably max 2 and well behaved too, 2 because they become friends) A good listener and shoulder to "cry on at times", a very WARM person. IS what I'm looking for utterly impossible? I HONESTLY and truly think so, the way I see it...if I can FIND what I'm looking for here it'll save me a LOT of effort and money saving to go find her elsewhere because I would like to see her as a "once in lifetime opportunity", I would see her as a SERIOUS..."emotional investment" ;) Let's see ;) There is a CERTAIN kind of personality I'm looking: For example -If I ask her who comes first in her life, her child or her husband she will say that her husband is first in ANY situation -If I tell her that I'll be jealous over her she'll say that she feels privileged because it shows I CARE (some women don't LIKE this restriction, they prefer freedom) -If she were to find me in bed with another woman (for example) she would chase that woman away and try to sort out the marriage instead of divorcing -I am looking for for the one who WANTS...to improve herself until she is a perfect wife for me -When she marries she would LEAVE her immediate family and I become her ONLY family (some women tend to "cling" to their family with the husband becoming "PART-OF" the family...I don't WANT this -Then you get the time when I tell her "sweetheart, we need to move" then she says "well honey, wherever YOU go...I go" ;) (HEY...I'm being honest here ok!) Girl...if you are the all the above you had BETTER write! but IF not,PLEASE don't waste my time! (Oh, one more thing, I have tried one or two afrikaans speaking girls and I have found that I DON'T seem to "gel" very well with them, I DON'T know why, perhaps just "culture" difference??)
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More About Me

Craig

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
48
28 - 43
Lives in:
Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa
within 250 kms of Kimberley, Northern Cape, South Africa
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Light Brown, Brown, Blonde
Hair length:
Short
Long, Medium
Hair type:
Other
Straight, Wavy
Eye color:
Brown
Blue
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'8" (173 cm)
Any
Weight:
69 kg (152 lb)
45 kg (99 lb) - 70 kg (154 lb)
Body style:
Average
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Caucasian (White), Indian
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
Don't Know
Any
Body art:
None
Earrings
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive, Attractive, Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
No
Yes - sometimes live at home, Yes - don't live at home, No
Number of children:
N/A
0
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
No
No
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Other
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
R7,001 - R14,000 ZAR
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Verified
South Africa
South Africa
Education:
Vocational College
Any
Languages spoken:
English
English
Religion:
Christian
Any
Star sign:
Aquarius
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Dancing, Music (Listening), Science and Technology, TV: Entertainment

Food:

Other, Fast Food / Pizza

Music:

Dance / Techno, Pop, Rock, Soft Rock

Sport:

Athletics, Martial Arts, Table Tennis, Volleyball

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Matrix

Favorite Book:

Dianetics, The great escape

Favorite Food:

Ice cream, pineapple, tongue, mushrooms and others

Favorite Music:

Rock, dance, 70's-90's

Dress Style:

I'm attractive, don't over dress, just smart casual at times, depending on situation

Humor:

Sometimes I even laugh at my OWN jokes but yeah, I can make good jokes, sarcastic, witty ones

Hobbies & Interests:

internet, science and technology, music (listen)

Travelled:

Haven't traveled yet no, but I would like to go to Ukraine

Cultural Adaption:

Not easy, especially african, I'm not intending dating these kind of people

Romance:

In a hotel or a place VERY close to the beach

Personality:

I'm rather friendly, soft, honest, smart, sincere, rather affectionate, non-abusive

My Perfect Match is:

Either very cute and sweet or someone willing to be 100% obedient/submissive to her man asking him permission for everything as though he "owns" her

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