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Dear Future Wife

Paul
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

49 Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 198088

Seeking Female 27 - 43 living within 250 kms of Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Paul

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

Dear Future Wife Sweetheart, I know you are out there; the challenge is just trying to figure out how to find you and working out the logistics of marrying someone from another country. To put it bluntly, how do you turn this idea into a happy and lasting marriage? If I understand correctly, ...
Dear Future Wife Sweetheart, I know you are out there; the challenge is just trying to figure out how to find you and working out the logistics of marrying someone from another country. To put it bluntly, how do you turn this idea into a happy and lasting marriage? If I understand correctly, the way things are supposed to work is that we carry on a long distance (monogamous?) relationship for a few years before we REALLY meet. Then, its 90 days for us Both to plan a wedding and figure out whether you are really the right one to commit my life to? If that is not a contradiction what is? I will pass on that trade….thanks. However, what if I told you that after we spent enough time with each other to decide to make a go of it I can get you over here on a work visa that would give us enough time to figure out whether it was meant to be? Here is my plan, but of course we are a team and you need to let me know whether you think this makes sense……
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Seeking

• We will meet each other in my upcoming trip to: Odessa - Nikolaev – Kherson July 11 to 22nd. • If we decide we have chemistry then we agree to spend enough time with each other during my visit to make the decision that we want to give it a “go”, with every hope that it will work out, but with b...
• We will meet each other in my upcoming trip to: Odessa - Nikolaev – Kherson July 11 to 22nd. • If we decide we have chemistry then we agree to spend enough time with each other during my visit to make the decision that we want to give it a “go”, with every hope that it will work out, but with both of us understanding what to do if it doesn’t. • While I would not want you to take any sort of real job, I think the best way to get you over here without the limitations of a marriage visa is a work visa. This way we don’t have a gun to our heads to make a decision in 90 days and we can just enjoy getting to know each other without that pressure. • While my highest hope is for us to get married, if it does not happen, of course I would do everything I could to help you find a legitimate job so you could stay in the country, and also, support you for a reasonable period of time while you are job hunting. The conclusion that I have come to is that if I meet someone and have great chemistry with them and I think they could be the one, I am willing to pull the trigger and move in with that person, live like a husband and wife, to see how it works out.
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More About Me

Paul

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
49
27 - 43
Lives in:
Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
within 250 kms of Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Light Brown
Any
Hair length:
No Answer
Any
Hair type:
No Answer
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
No Answer
Any
Height:
6'0" (183 cm)
Any
Weight:
92 kg (202 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
No Answer
N/A
Best feature:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Very attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
No Answer
Any
Oldest child:
No Answer
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Answer
Any
Occupation:
Self Employed
Any
Employment status:
No Answer
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
No Answer
Any
Living situation:
No Answer
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
No Answer
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Any

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