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The sun never says to the earth...

Ben
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

37 Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa

Male / Other / ID: 228804

Seeking Female 20 - 40 living within 500 kms of Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa For: Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Ben

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any

Member Overview

"Even After All this time The Sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look What happens With a love like that, It lights the whole sky." - Hafiz. Spiritual, fun, intense, love music, outdoors, hikes, travel, science...affectionate, loyal. Live music, movies. Family man, homely...
"Even After All this time The Sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look What happens With a love like that, It lights the whole sky." - Hafiz. Spiritual, fun, intense, love music, outdoors, hikes, travel, science...affectionate, loyal. Live music, movies. Family man, homely. Curious about the more mystical. I am both - I love time alone and I love time conversing with those I love. Non-drinking/smoking vegan lifestyle. From yoga to rugby, meditation to history. I am married. My wife and I would like to add another to our family. She a sister wife. A best friend to hang out with and share a life with. She is here with me. We have so much love to share. We're definitely not conventional. We'll start with friendship. Photo - I want to protect the privacy of my family so I'll only share photos after a few conversations.
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Seeking

Looking for someone who would like to connect on a deeper level, and has an interest in healthy lifestyles. Someone who enjoys the friendship and companionship of female friendships. "Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there. When the soul lies...
Looking for someone who would like to connect on a deeper level, and has an interest in healthy lifestyles. Someone who enjoys the friendship and companionship of female friendships. "Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there. When the soul lies down in that grass the world is too full to talk about." ― Rumi I'm open to friendships too, in general, with anyone who feels a shared interest.
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More About Me

Ben

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
37
20 - 40
Lives in:
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
within 500 kms of Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Curly
Any
Eye color:
Black
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'9" (176 cm)
Any
Weight:
60 kg (132 lb)
Any
Body style:
Slim
Petite, Slim, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Black
Any
Facial hair:
Goatee
N/A
Best feature:
My Eyes
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Other
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Any
Employment status:
Other
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with spouse
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
South Africa
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Religion:
Other
Any
Star sign:
Don't Know
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Family, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Meditation, Philosophy / Spirituality, Poetry, Science and Technology, Social Causes / Activism, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Watching Sports, Writing

Food:

Other, Middle Eastern, Indian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Vegan, Mexican

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Jazz / Blues, World

Sport:

Athletics, Cricket, Gymnastics, Hiking, Martial Arts, Rugby, Soccer, Tennis / Badminton, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Japanese anime, art films

Favorite Book:

Philosophy, black history

Favorite Food:

Vegan, raw food

Favorite Music:

World, Jazz, Avante Guard

Dress Style:

Casual, African

Humor:

Witty, dry, light

Travelled:

Argentina, Israel, Mexico, Switzerland, United States, Senegal, Bali, Thailand, India, Brazil, Mali

Cultural Adaption:

I am adaptive so long as the person is able to be flexible to my own culture.

Personality:

Sometimes light, fun, sometimes serious and intense. I can be very quiet, at other times I won't stop talking. Capable of being an exceptional listener. Strong minded. Loving. Private person but will open up in time and when you need me to.

My Perfect Match is:

Open hearted, depth in thinking and connection, open minded, spiritual, veg orientated, non-drinking/smoking, who is capable of a life long commitment and who desire to really know love. Relationships can be a messy business. Someone who is willing to grow with me.

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