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Helen
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

53 Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Female / Single / ID: 241011

Seeking Male 45 - 55 living within 50 kms of Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa For: Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Helen

She's Looking For

Education:

High School
Any

Have children:

Yes - sometimes live at home
Any

Drink:

Do drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

No religion
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

I'm light-hearted and easy going with a healthy sense of humour. I'm unconventional, motivated, loving, independent, creative, sociable, intelligent, compassionate, open minded and affectionate. But not always, not necessarily in that order, and never all at the same time! :-) I'm full of...
I'm light-hearted and easy going with a healthy sense of humour. I'm unconventional, motivated, loving, independent, creative, sociable, intelligent, compassionate, open minded and affectionate. But not always, not necessarily in that order, and never all at the same time! :-) I'm full of paradoxes: I'm self assured....yet am not afraid to show my vulnerabilities. I love the beach and mountain....yet adore long hot baths and snuggling in bed with a book...or my co-snuggler! I have strong views about the world we live in....yet never force them on others. I'm not a 'poppie' (no heavy make-up or high heels), but I'm feminine and sexy (so I'm told) in my own way. I choose to see the funny side of life at any opportunity ...but my serious side is never far off. I am driven and determined....yet can also be a lazy sod! Love travel....but my home is my sanctuary. I enjoy my own company (boredom...what's that?)....yet really enjoy socializing and spending time with friends, family or a special man by my side. I'm sensual and love giving and receiving affection. I will not tolerate injustices or discrimination of any kind. I adapt with ease to a wide spectrum of social situations. I feel much much younger than my years.
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Seeking

What do I like in a man? For starters, a sense of humour is vital! (together with intelligence it's a powerful aphrodisiac!) Kind, loving, affectionate. Gentle....yet strong. Intelligent. Humble. Compassionate. Not afraid to show vulnerability. Alternative, progressive, open minded, ...
What do I like in a man? For starters, a sense of humour is vital! (together with intelligence it's a powerful aphrodisiac!) Kind, loving, affectionate. Gentle....yet strong. Intelligent. Humble. Compassionate. Not afraid to show vulnerability. Alternative, progressive, open minded, creative, not Mr Average. Be on the same page (or at least in the same chapter!) as me re. his outlook on life. What's the point in pretending to be someone you aren't, or being with someone you can't relate to? As for honesty...life's too short to engage in anything less. It's a non-negotiable in my book. We have fun together, we give each other space, we support each other, we can't keep our hands off each other, we motivate, inspire and encourage each other....... ....we're Friends, we're Lovers, we're Partners In Crime. :-) But until we stumble across each other, I'm open to enjoying anything relaxed and fun with no expectations.
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More About Me

Helen

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
53
45 - 55
Lives in:
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
within 50 kms of Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
5'9" (176 cm)
5'10" (178 cm) - No Answer
Weight:
73 kg (161 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
N/A
Any
Best feature:
If You're lucky I'll show you later
Any
Body art:
Tattoo
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Do drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Single
Single, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - sometimes live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
18
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
Cat
Any
Occupation:
Self Employed
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
South Africa
Any
Education:
High School
Any
Languages spoken:
Afrikaans
English
Religion:
No religion
Any
Star sign:
Aquarius
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Antiques, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Crafts, Dinner Parties, Family, Home Improvement, Pets, Photography, Reading, Theatre, Traveling

Food:

Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Seafood, Indian, Italian, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Mediterranean, Vegan

Music:

Jazz / Blues, Reggae, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Athletics, Tennis / Badminton, Walking

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