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Paul (57) 

Male / Single / ID: 302110
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Female 48 - 60 living in South Africa
For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Masters Degree
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Self Employed

I like going to the movies, wine tasting, staying in of course and watching a great movie. I am friendly, have a good sense of humor, trustworthy, loyal, and an extremely passionate man. I love late night talks and massages. Waking up in the middle of the night during a thunderstorm and knowing you ...read more >>

I like going to the movies, wine tasting, staying in of course and watching a great movie. I am friendly, have a good sense of humor, trustworthy, loyal, and an extremely passionate man. I love late night talks and massages. Waking up in the middle of the night during a thunderstorm and knowing you can hug someone is very comforting. I love the rain, cooking, History, reading, and horror movies. I like nice dinners with great company but would really enjoy having an intimate candle lit dinner for two at home. Cuddling in front of the fireplace. If someone were to ask me what's the number one most important factor in ANY relationship......I would have to say "Honesty". If I ask someone a question I am asking for a reason. In other words I don't just talk to talk. I can listen to someone talk all day long if the conversation is enlightening or informative. I don't like to be the center of attention. When people first meet me I am very quiet and introverted. Once I know you, I'll open up and consider you family. Therefore, I choose my acquaintances very carefully. I don't like selfish people. But I treat people like I want to be treated. Rudeness and impoliteness is just unnecessary. It isn't hard to smile, and be nice. I love laughing and being with people who have a sense of humor. We all get a little caught up in physical attraction that we seem to lose out on the most important feature of a person......The mind and heart

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About Paul

He's Looking For

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 57 48 - 60
Lives in: Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa South Africa
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Not sure about relocating
Appearance 
Hair color: Grey / White Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Hazel Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 6'1" (186 cm) Any
Weight: 101 kg (222 lb) Any
Body style: Average Average
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Lips Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Attractive
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Occasionally smoke
Marital Status: Single Single
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Yes - sometimes live at home
Number of children: 1 Any
Oldest child: 1 Any
Youngest child: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: No Any
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Self Employed Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: House Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: South Africa Any
Education: Masters Degree Any
Languages spoken: English English
Religion: Christian Christian
Star sign: Taurus Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Investing / Finance, Music (Listening), News / Politics, Photography, Reading, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Volunteering, Watching Sports, Wine Tasting
Food: American, Barbecue, Seafood, Greek, Soul Food, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican
Music: Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Religious, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock
Sport: American Football, Bowling, Fishing, Golf, Gym / Weight Training, Horse Riding, Soccer, Swimming, Walking

I'm looking for a woman who wants to take the time to get to know me through an open communication and an open sharing of the head and the heart first and then negotiating a meeting in person if we both remain interested. I am ready willing and able to venture forth on a journey that will leave the ...read more >>

I'm looking for a woman who wants to take the time to get to know me through an open communication and an open sharing of the head and the heart first and then negotiating a meeting in person if we both remain interested. I am ready willing and able to venture forth on a journey that will leave the past behind while preserving the best memories and forgiving the ones that were hurtful and usually unintentional. I live life one day, one hour, one moment at a time. I want and need the healing power of love physically emotionally and spiritually. I live as if time were on fire and I believe that every day of the right relationship should be treated like the first day of our honeymoon. I want to share what I have with one special woman who will appreciate that I have a deep capacity to love that needs to be filled and fulfilled. We can't keep it unless we give it away ...well concerning sexuality; I am not a promiscuous man. My desire is to be sexually faithful to the woman I am with. If two people love each other and will communicate what they like and do not like about their partner's sexual behavior, I believe many problems can be resolved....

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