Pretty simple really, I am looking for someone that understands what it means to raise a kid. Either a person understands this, or they don’t. My daughter is only 7 when she lost her mom , she is very important to me, so most things in my life take her into account. I am not big on selfish people, relationship simply don’t work if one person is selfish. I don’t mind woman with kids but preferable in my own daughter’s age range (she is 7). However I am not interested in married woman at all. I am cautious in starting a new relationship, but I very much want a long term relationship with eye on re-marriage, a life partner, a life friend. I was with my wife for 23+ years, married for 16 and it was a great experience. Personality wise I love all types of woman. Body and looks wise -- well it takes all types to make the world go round. I do however prefer people that also look after themselves. A person that hates to gym or shy away from hikes or exercise will probably not be a good fit. I am not interested in someone that has smoked nicotine in the last 10 years, regular or vapor. No smokers please. I am hoping to find an educated person, I’m financially secure and as a self employed software consultant I do pretty well. I want someone that has the same earning potential. I like independent woman. I can provide a very stable environment, but want someone that also knows how to look after themselves. However if you are a bit younger, I fully understand you are still finding your place. However the old the person is, the more confidant and self-sufficient a person has to be.