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SA living in US, FL. Finding my dating feet again

Johnny
Standard Member
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Last active: over 12 months ago

48 Jacksonville, Florida, United States

Male / Widowed / ID: 322673

Seeking Female 25 - 43 living in South Africa For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Johnny

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No religion
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

I live in the USA, though born in SA. I have been here about 20+ years and I am US citizen. I prefer South Africa woman, hence checking out this site. I am easy going; I don’t have any serious likes or dislikes. I am not a huge people person but not socially awkward either. I am comforta...
I live in the USA, though born in SA. I have been here about 20+ years and I am US citizen. I prefer South Africa woman, hence checking out this site. I am easy going; I don’t have any serious likes or dislikes. I am not a huge people person but not socially awkward either. I am comfortable financially. I love oil painting – which I could not do the last year but picked up cooking, I love cooking too! I also enjoy swimming as a workout, use to swim allot, but the last year I could not frequently – at my peak I could do about 4km, 3 to 4 times a week 5 am in the mornings  I’ve been forced to switch to lunch time swimming, so now about 76 lengths in 30 min. I have a 7 year old daughter, which is the love of my life. I recently lost my wife to cancer but reluctantly testing the dating waters. Frankly dreading it a bit to be quite honest.
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Seeking

Pretty simple really, I am looking for someone that understands what it means to raise a kid. Either a person understands this, or they don’t. My daughter is only 7 when she lost her mom , she is very important to me, so most things in my life take her into account. I am not big on selfish peop...
Pretty simple really, I am looking for someone that understands what it means to raise a kid. Either a person understands this, or they don’t. My daughter is only 7 when she lost her mom , she is very important to me, so most things in my life take her into account. I am not big on selfish people, relationship simply don’t work if one person is selfish. I don’t mind woman with kids but preferable in my own daughter’s age range (she is 7). However I am not interested in married woman at all. I am cautious in starting a new relationship, but I very much want a long term relationship with eye on re-marriage, a life partner, a life friend. I was with my wife for 23+ years, married for 16 and it was a great experience. Personality wise I love all types of woman. Body and looks wise -- well it takes all types to make the world go round. I do however prefer people that also look after themselves. A person that hates to gym or shy away from hikes or exercise will probably not be a good fit. I am not interested in someone that has smoked nicotine in the last 10 years, regular or vapor. No smokers please. I am hoping to find an educated person, I’m financially secure and as a self employed software consultant I do pretty well. I want someone that has the same earning potential. I like independent woman. I can provide a very stable environment, but want someone that also knows how to look after themselves. However if you are a bit younger, I fully understand you are still finding your place. However the old the person is, the more confidant and self-sufficient a person has to be.
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More About Me

Johnny

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
48
25 - 43
Lives in:
Verified
Jacksonville, Florida, United States
South Africa
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
None
Any
Height:
Verified
5'10" (178 cm)
Any
Weight:
99 kg (218 lb)
Any
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Caucasian (White)
Facial hair:
Short Beard
N/A
Best feature:
My Chest
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Average
Very attractive, Attractive, Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Widowed
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
7
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Self Employed
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
Town house
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
South Africa
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English,Afrikaans
English, French, Afrikaans, German, Italian, Japanese, Portuguese, Spanish
Religion:
No religion
Any
Star sign:
Capricorn
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Bars / Pubs / Nightclubs, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Crafts, Dining Out, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Investing / Finance, Library, Music (Listening), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Photography, Reading, Science and Technology, Shopping, Theatre, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Video / Online Games

Food:

American, French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Continental, Jewish / Kosher, Thai, Deli, Korean, Vegetarian / Organic, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Vegan, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Alternative, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Metal, New Age, Pop, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Squash / Racquetball, Swimming

More About Me

Favorite Book:

George R R Martine

Favorite Food:

All

Favorite Music:

Rock, Metal, EDM

Dress Style:

Average

Humor:

Dry

Hobbies & Interests:

Oil Painting, computers

Travelled:

Been to allot of places, have not seem much of Europe ... may get the chance someday.

Cultural Adaption:

Sure

Romance:

On the beach ... or at home.

Personality:

Wallflower, quite, serious

My Perfect Match is:

Someone that knows what it means to raise children, someone that is not selfish, someone that is independent

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