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Renai
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

59 Los Angeles, California, United States

Male / Widowed / ID: 354851

Seeking Female 30 - 52 living within 100 kms of Los Angeles, California, United States For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Renai

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Buddhist
Any

Occupation:

Other
Any

Member Overview

Well to tell you about me, I have been able to sort out the fact that vegetables aren’t hatched and chickens arent planted; you dont need an elephant to kill an ant and one does not trade a cow for a chicken, or light a candle in the sun, so that counts for some intelligence. What I learned as a c...
Well to tell you about me, I have been able to sort out the fact that vegetables aren’t hatched and chickens arent planted; you dont need an elephant to kill an ant and one does not trade a cow for a chicken, or light a candle in the sun, so that counts for some intelligence. What I learned as a child is that you dont jump out of a second story window with a sheet and yell Up, Up and Away! one might wind up getting stitches, but I am sure about the Big Bad Wolf. I think that I have left lots intelligents to fight over…. I am not greedy. I am trustworthy, extroverted, and well educated I think, but then every cook thinks that his dunghill is the best. I am still working on developing prime wisdom trying to pierce right though my darkness and guide myself toward the light of insight and awareness of some secondary God creation.. The density of my darkness is the key to my knighthood in common sense-icily” world but alas I try! I tried to recall in times gone by and even now when I found me in what I saw of the world of dog-eat-dog mentality and I felt lost in those times in a substantive, spiritual and living truth way, even looking in eyes of my givers from their laps. Be that as it may, I have found at times that the very best part of me comes out when faced with the mantises of myself and I do what I must to survive or perish. Mostly I have found that I popam the fertilizer of my every experiences, and that they are for me to utilize them as fodder on my experience so the challenge is and will always be to find the truth of me in my spiritual quest to uncover my talents . My gifts deluxe, my mortgage-able talents, and an industry I can challenge to see my dreams and desires. I am intuitive or at least I believe in the importance inner life, but in this regard I am no clairvoyant that’s for sure; and this is not really clear. I don’t want to be as clairvoyant as "Miss Cleo" (the infamous fortune teller now living in that great American institution of basic learning for people with sticky fingers) that I do know. The Elephant in the room is that neither what we did or to whom it was done but what of ourselves will we carry over to effect these changes. Love and being loved is the Miracle that we take for granted as a concentrated. I seek the dreams that I deserve with each step I take. I also try to keep faith in my doubts. I believe laughter is deeply encouraging in difficult times, I think~ well I hope so? I have this theory that there is growth and transformation in laughter; who knows what religious icons could have save themselves burning, and poking and stabbing, and blood letting if they used laughter~ they could have transforms millions, well I couldn’t say that Pontius Pilate could have taken a joke but I would have tried, you know Pride before Destruction. I made this pact with myself and its’ called “My Bill of Indublities” and my First Amendment is to never argue with an idiot they have more experience. Yogi Bera championed my Second Amendment and it is “don’t take yourself too seriously because nobody gets out of life alive.” My Third Amendment is never play for a tie, buy one! I am adventurous and open-minded but not empty headed. I am creative or is it resourceful I have never been able to really decide on that one. I am sensible, playful, cultured, social, moderately successful (I can afford to spend what I am spending). I know that you cannot reach the rainbow until you have gone through the rain. If I thank you, you can see the gratitude in my smile and my soul in my eyes. I am in my middle flirties! I like to spend time alone but this is not the way I want to wind up in life, needless-to-say, right! I am a great father, good friend. I am fair…in a subjective way ethically. I find that I don’t have an attitude problem; some people have a perception problem and me too sometimes. Although, I do realize that some days I won’t be the pigeon but the statue. I know that the only time success comes before work is in the dictionary. I’d say that I am a great cook, but then you have to remember the dunghill theory! I still believe in opening doors and pulling out chairs for women and I am “color-blind” as well, I maybe a renaissance man, who knows?. I love science and astronomy; I think that if I had a clone it would be a Scientist. I say bless you when someone sneezes. I am spiritual not religious, considerate, romantic, sensual, and I love deeply and passionately. I believe in love at first sight or not. I am caring and generous but not stupid. I look people in the eye when I talk to them. I am diplomatic I think; that means I can make people see that both of us are wonderful, or is this common sense-ical. I am a leader, and a good follower; a good dancer (Dunghill!). I am a risk taker… I always need a parachute. I am confident and tactful.... I don`t turn in to attack dog with words in an argument.... I don`t do melodrama; I hâve learned that I canot choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it, and I know that I am hopelessly flawed too. My favorite author is Alexander Pope, I find Shakespeare is good to read again and again, I am impressed with Marta Monahan, Paul Ferrinin, Sir Isaac Newton, Henrik Ibsen, and the poetry of Czeslaw Milosz but it takes time to wind your way through the labyrinths of his wisdom, I like W.E.B. Dubois, Paul Lawrence Dunbar, Shelly and Keats...oh, I like to read. What will this day be like, what will my future be, lets see. My heart was born in deep silence with the strength of a giant, but like the spirit of life, made for sincere love. I will and cannot build a mountain nor can I catch a rainbow, but I will be there when you need me and that you can count on. And this is my story and I’m sticking to it!!!
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Seeking

I will know her when I meet her. She is the wonderful being that I can share a life with by design from the universe not me.
I will know her when I meet her. She is the wonderful being that I can share a life with by design from the universe not me.

More About Me

Renai

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
59
30 - 52
Lives in:
Los Angeles, California, United States
within 100 kms of Los Angeles, California, United States
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Hair length:
Bald
Any
Hair type:
Curly
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
5'9" (176 cm)
Any
Weight:
81 kg (178 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Slim, Average, Athletic, Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Any
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Chest
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Widowed
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
Older than 18
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Other
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English,Chinese (Mandarin),Spanish
Any
Religion:
Buddhist
Any
Star sign:
Libra
Any

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