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Tall And Brown-Eyed African American Man

Thomas
Standard Member
Last active: 6 months ago

67 Baltimore, Maryland, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 495185

Seeking Female 35 - 55 living within 100 kms of Baltimore, Maryland, United States For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 6 months ago

Overview

Thomas

He's Looking For

Education:

High School
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No religion
Any

Occupation:

Retired
Any

Member Overview

I am in search of something serious. Not here for fun, play, games, or fantasy. Ladies, you notice my age. A lot of young activity does not inspire me. My search is a mature one. I’m a tall (6ft.3in.) black man born in America. I live in a 3 bedroom townhome in a northern suburb of Baltimore City...
I am in search of something serious. Not here for fun, play, games, or fantasy. Ladies, you notice my age. A lot of young activity does not inspire me. My search is a mature one. I’m a tall (6ft.3in.) black man born in America. I live in a 3 bedroom townhome in a northern suburb of Baltimore City. I’ve no children and I’m searching for a loving mate. I am told I do not look my age. However, regular removal of my silver hair gives me a more youthful appearance. I maintain a pleasant appearance through nutrition, exercise, and vitamin supplementation. I am the first born of six children. Both parents are with the ancestors. My siblings and I are very close. Very tight. Hence all nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews are treasured. Though my basic inner nature is a conservative one, being a black man on a planet dominated by “white male supremacy racism”, much of my “outward” expression and behavior is liberal to progressive to even sometimes radical out of a necessity for the survival of my life. Know that I am not naïve to the realities of the paradigm in which we live, created by those who own all the wealth and power. These people determine economies; own governments and it’s politicians; courts and legal systems; manipulate birth and death rates, etc. They are the same people who create the prevailing negative and false stereotypes of black men in America and all around the globe. I say these things because you should know this about me up front. In a very basic and fundamental way, like a computer needs an “operating system” (Microsoft Windows) to function, what I’ve revealed here is my “operating system”. It is how I am able to function and navigate through this earthly realm. I’ve always been athletic in my life since about the age of 8. However, at the age of 55 I developed some severe arthritis in my knees. So, I’ve had to slow down a bit. Still, I continue to enjoy physical fitness and a good diet. Except for consuming fish I am not a meat eater. Veggies, grains, nuts, seeds and fruit, round out my diet with ample vitamins and herbs to supplement it. This supplementation is a necessity as the American food system is dominated by endless processed and nutrient deficient food products. I am in good health and do not require any of the toxic pharmaceuticals that dominate the lives of many in this country. I am drug free, disease free, have never been a smoker, do not drink, am not a statistic in the criminal justice system in this country, and I am not an abuser of women or children. And, oh yes ladies, I’d be very remiss if I did not say that I AM A LOVER OF WOMEN AND NOT MEN! In other words, I harbor no desire whatsoever to “copulate” with men. So ladies, I have always had an interest and attraction to women of all nationalities. Therefore, I will not allow the divisive and false “social constructs” of race, religion and class to influence who I am drawn to. The self-imposed or social-imposed parameters of “ethnocentricity” cannot corral me as well. My mind and inner world is far too wide and expansive for such small minded insecurity and neurosis. All of that notwithstanding, still, know that I am proud of my black skin and my African heritage. What I’ve revealed here is but a small slice of the whole and ever growing spiritbeing that I am. Peace and love to all and may the Divine Universal Intelligence always be with you and may “She” always guide and protect you.
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Seeking

I like a woman who is down to earth and approachable, yet someone with a level of sophistication that immediately lets you know she’s not na&239;ve and she’s no man’s footstool. Someone who is feminine, yet can be strong if she needs to be. Someone who is soft and smooth and attractive to my eye...
I like a woman who is down to earth and approachable, yet someone with a level of sophistication that immediately lets you know she’s not na&239;ve and she’s no man’s footstool. Someone who is feminine, yet can be strong if she needs to be. Someone who is soft and smooth and attractive to my eye. A woman who will always make sure that my eyes are drawn to her I’m not a man who “always” has all the answers, so it’s important that my lady is smart. The smarter she is the better. I know that I am smart, and two smart people together is better than just one. If she is smarter than me, then I want to be with her. I’m not insecure in that way. I see it strictly as an advantage. We all grow, develop, and mature by surrounding ourselves and being in the company of smart and intelligent people. One’s mate should serve to foster one’s lifelong process of growth, development, and maturing. Certainly, any one of us can learn even from a child, or even from someone with mental disabilities. For, life is a never-ending classroom. Hence, we’re all simultaneously students and teachers of life. That’s just how life is. We are all innately intelligent. For me, a mate who is smart, or even smarter than me is only going to enhance my own growth and development as a human being. Having said that, though I know I’m a student, I’m not beyond being a teacher for my mate also. I love a woman with that motherly instinct and gift, for it is the women that makes life for humanity possible. There’s not a harder job on the planet than being a mother. The mother aspect of the woman is her genius. There is no greater genius in humanity than motherhood. Not creating a nuclear bomb, and it&39;s not creating an economic, political, and social system of government that enriches the already wealthy elites of the planet at the expense and exploitation of the rest of us. genius is creating life not destroying it. I believe it is that genius in woman that allows her to so easily make her man feel like a king even if he really isn’t. Woman, I love and adore you. You, and only you, are my perfect mate.
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More About Me

Thomas

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
67
35 - 55
Lives in:
Baltimore, Maryland, United States
within 100 kms of Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate to another country

Appearance

Hair color:
Bald / Shaved
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
6'3" (191 cm)
5'5" (166 cm) - 6'4" (194 cm)
Weight:
105 kg (231 lb)
Any
Body style:
Slim
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic,Full Figured
Ethnicity:
Black
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Average
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single,Separated,Divorced,Widowed
Have children:
No
Any
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Retired
Any
Employment status:
Retired
Any
Income:
$30,001 - $60,000 USD
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
High School
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
Religion:
No religion
Any
Star sign:
Capricorn
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Astrology, Computers / Internet, Concerts / Live Music, Education, Family, Music (Listening), News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Reading, Science and Technology, TV: Educational / News

Food:

Vegetarian / Organic

Music:

Classical / Opera, Jazz / Blues, R'n'B / Hip Hop

Sport:

Archery, American Football, Baseball / Softball, Basketball, Biking, Bowling, Bodybuilding, Boxing, Cycling, Golf, Gym / Weight Training, Soccer, Table Tennis, Tennis / Badminton

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Birth of a Nation

Favorite Book:

World's Great Men of Color

Favorite Food:

Vegetarian and Fish

Favorite Music:

Jazz, European Classical, Rhythm and Blues, Soul, some "New Age" sounds

Dress Style:

Not a "fashion maven", but I dress appropriately. Physical appearance is neat and slender

Humor:

great sense of humor

Hobbies & Interests:

My Woman, New, Politics, and Current Events, Black/African History, and History in general, Spirituality, Sports, Music, Concert, Movies, Theatre

Travelled:

I've been to many states in the U.S. I've been to Canada. However, I've never been off of the North American Continent. Ultimate destination is Egypt.

Cultural Adaption:

I am a flexible person. it will be a transition of course, but I will make all the adaptations necessary

Romance:

preparing and having dinner together, perhaps movie, theatre, concert, or quiet stroll together talking

Personality:

easy going and laid back. i can get animated regarding politics, news, local and global events, and black history and history in general

My Perfect Match is:

a woman who is down to earth and confident, very feminine and attractive to my eye. with a personality that enhances my growth as a spiritbeing and makes our union bright and dynamic.

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