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Dutch
Standard Member
Last active: 1 week ago

56 Columbus, Ohio, United States

Male / Single / ID: 320720

Seeking Female 18 - 28 living in South Africa For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: 1 week ago

Overview

Dutch

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Any

Have children:

No
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Any

Religion:

No religion
Any

Occupation:

Technical / Science / Engineering
Any

Member Overview

First: I usually READ Your profile. "Liars can't!" Need explain? Yeah! Go ahead, Play and Lie. All are too stupid! One said has over 9 levels of meaning. I've every reason to believe that you are REAL. I know a scam when I see one. How do I prove to you that I'm real and respectful? One said...
First: I usually READ Your profile. "Liars can't!" Need explain? Yeah! Go ahead, Play and Lie. All are too stupid! One said has over 9 levels of meaning. I've every reason to believe that you are REAL. I know a scam when I see one. How do I prove to you that I'm real and respectful? One said, chasing a dream. Mine is too fast for me and every year I'm farther and farther behind. 15 years ago, it won and I'm ridiculously so far back, it's as if I was never there. Pointless? Futile? At my age, is 'Resistance is futile... ' I ' ...will be assimilated'? In the jail of alone my '...time is about up...'? you tu becom/watch? v=OGsEe_Zr9ZI 'All of the Good Ones Are Taken...'? you tu becom watch? V=Ati0xSkX-t8 since all are married. Clearly, there's no point continuing this charade. In my years, I've done things right (in general), yet what my life is as unfulfilled from my goals. I'm tired of dear / deer hunting. Hunt me. There are many clues to find me. Check places. Duran Duran 'Hungry Like the Wolf'. I want 'you tu becom watch? v=oOg5VxrRTi0 Hurry up; I've had it. I want to stop before I got to my next bed ... of flowers and covered by a blanket... of dirt. I probably should have 15 years ago, since 'I had absolutely no reason to move' you tu becom watch? v=oOg5VxrRTi0 (… FUTILE fight (Film: American Samurai) as a tiger the only option with splintered flag pole as the only weapon... you tu becom/watch? v=OGsEe_Zr9ZI ). Why should I die when horrible criminals who do evil thrive? Irony. That's the reason 18 - 28. Fertility. Says below, Best feature? You judge and one choice is ?wallet?. One thing I can say is credit cards. I just saw one that said it. I busted out laughing. Laugh, laugh. Seriously, they've been my best friends working for me and made me survive IN TACT my crises / 'egoistic crises' (tech term, no community / alone). Huge debt; giant knowledge warehouse - richness. Knowledge is power, not money (a cruel joke?). Many of you are complaining about the stupid garbage guys do. I don't. It's a form of rape. I've not married, little romance. I value you more than I can write. Gals don't know me, until these site. Film Lonely Guy (1986, Steve Martin) has clearly been biographical you tu becom watch? v=M2ntCgmDw-w . How? For about 25 years I worked or schooled at a college or university which is full of dear(s) / deer. No gal talked to me (as peer gal students about my age or in my classes) and wanted to get together. No gals invited me to share time together. Zero. Now my life is Shot; a life that never happened. I'm an old man now. dut ch 89 26 in sky / g just as Don Quixote in this you tu be co m/ watch? v=RfHnzYEHAow See it? CONCERNS: Economies, see 'More About Me Hobbies and Interests. You find Precious metals and Gems in dirt. Are You a mineralogist or treat priceless as dirt (joke)? I'm shy and want you to make the move. Shocked by many idiot men say stuff about Yr body. DON'T CARE: Bodies - pretty, beauty, ugly, fat, thin, nudity (don't ask for fotos). Notice: less than 9 seconds (20s BMI = 27). I say after established trust relationship. I'm here for building a lifelong multi-dimensional relationship of communication and emotional intimacy. ESSENTIAL: Fancy as 'Counseling Medic' - Nurturing, Excellent emotional intimacy and relationship skills, know myself and learning, being more patient and understanding with others. New Friend (4 months) contacted me 1ST, MOMENTS after (gal, ahem, worst) trauma. Who’d you call? A poly Teddy bear, playful, child like. IT AMAZES ME THAT SO MANY DON'T WANT IT AND SCARES THEM! "Dear (deer) hunt? Bagged". See in More About Me I'm 'severely' blunt, open, honest, about myself. Then culture is simple, unsophisticated, and earthy. SAINTHOOD: Accepting, patient tolerant. "...neither I condemn you..." (John 8:11). Dedicated life to (Agape - Ancient Greek) loving and serving all people as God (Matt 25:35-40). At my age, clearly, 'Nice Guys Finish Last', if at all. (joke). I'm here for building a lifelong multi-dimensional relationship of communication and emotional intimacy. VIEWING YOU MEANS I SAID 'HI'. I SAVE ALL NOTICES. I TREAT ALL AS if friends from 1964. Reared Soldier Values ( desmonddoss cm ) I Live MARINES: We take COMMITMENTS, not 'Applications'. Do impossible, no limitations, duty, selflessness, driven (to ACHIEVE) in a cult (escaped). Chivalry, duty gallantry and honor. Quixotism. Now, I'm stereotypical Benelux Scandinavian Culture Liberal feminist. VIOLENCE, WAR, LIES,: dirty, disgusting, offensive, nasty, filthy, obscene, not sexuality (So all the words describe babies since that's the result). Hurt by monogamy lies. Don't want 'Serial Monogamy' lies = Discard = Divorce = Temporary (!) commitment (until better found). A ready made 'family' is good. Cultures may shame - anti-sexual. I say IT'S Human as pronatalist... MY BIOGRAPHICAL FILMS: Larry, 'Lonely Guy' (1984, Steve Martin); Charly (1971 Robertson); 'In GOD We Tru$t' (1980) - Ambrose, the innocent monk; Hacksaw Ridge (2016 - former SDA, VALUES INGRAINED.); 'Beautiful Joe' (Sharon Stone) BOOK: Flowers for Algernon. ACHIEVED PROFESSIONS: First pursuit: AEROSPACE engineer - ramjets. dutch 89 26 in sky Now 'multidisciplinary' with Mfg certification since 1995. I TUTOR (teach?) pre-engineering, as well as economics, psychology mostly STATISTICS. economics LOVING ALL THIS. ('Complex Supernerd'). Film 'Moneyball' is My work. The Quant - big fat nerd with glasses = me you tu becom watch? v=yGf6LNWY9AI). Design build contraptions from Garbage - 'Professor Gilligan' (TV show, 1964). MacGyver. If you help me with my business, I and you tu becom watch? v=qdoSy4ROZpg . Soaring like Eagles. See birds? Intellectual, Multi-sided, Over-educated. - Of 7B ppl the only one in nearly, no 'mainstream cultures'. Many sub-cultures. Like fun - board and card games, wargames, family games, Sudoku, 30 LANGUAGES (five poorly plus phonology - able to 'ID') / Executive Officer Esperanto Ohio (ask / search), News addict, Museums, PBS, NPR, Libraries, Bookbinding, Soaring, Aerosports, Snow Skiing, Biking, Adventures (travelling), Conversation - chit chat to hours of erudite discussions.Creative sense of humor (viz unusual). I say 'no relig' and 'very relig' = philosophical intellectual, I attack hypocrisy. Also, I've a hidden, secret, very wild side that only few women know and don't dare reveal. It takes 100% trust to reveal. Then 'Medics' get hurt (see tube Don Quixote). I LOST MY LIFE a LONG time ago: This is nadir of Mein Untergang (Downfall / Sinking as the Ed Fitz..you tu becom watch? v=hgI8bta-7aw). I FEEL VERY ALONE - too long alone: The last. Passenger Pigeon in the Cincin. Zoo in 1909. Still here but scared of people and isolating socially, expecting others can't be patient (Four years now since Jan. 2018). My brain is cooked and fried. Did I say 'honesty?' Like MOST (yes, I know. 'Counseling Medic' thing and statistics of my friends (10) gals), of you I've been (at least psychologically) raped (when adult) and as a child, molested humiliation (12 years old) by gorgeous teenage sisters in front of their friends. A Life Totally Alone (Mine). I awake alone. I say “Good Morning” to myself alone. I make coffee alone. I drink my coffee alone. I think about and out loud what I’ll do that day, alone. I watch the news early in the morning alone. I eat breakfast alone. I shower in an empty flat and I'm alone. I say “bye” to myself when I go to tutor a student alone. I wait at the bus stop and greet strangers, but alone. I ride the bus alone. I eat lunch alone. I shop at the grocery stores alone. I buy the goods alone. I exit the store alone. I travel home alone. I come home and I'm alone. I put away groceries alone. I do housework and cleaning alone. I disorder my flat alone. I go to concerts, libraries, festivals and museums, alone. I cover my bed with mail and books and I'm alone. I fix my meals of supper and dinner alone. I eat it alone. I call friends on the telephone and they aren't here, for I'm alone. I get sleepy alone. I prepare for bed alone. I go to sleep alone. And the next day, again, I'm alone. FAMILY MAN FILM, 2000, Nicolas Cage. Jack: Then I'm going to spend four hours skiing alone. Completely and utterly alone. I'm going to do that because that is my life, that's what's real... and there's nothing I can do to change that. ...I add... .. I've done everything imaginable not for that to occur since 2001. Thx for reading. Waves, hugs. My proverbs: Fail often so: You are living... to Your potential... to suceed (and suck)... to do the impossible... (S. L. added: )...and to know success Can't LOSE them all. (- Quixotism) HERO: An everyday person in an extraordinary situation that DOES THE RIGHT thing for the SAKE OF HUMANITY. When people act like sheep, they can easily become mutton (Ask the grandchildren and great-grandchildren of Axis of WW II). Then: There's a time 2 lead 'n time 2 follow. Wisdom of How to treat 'challenges' (as 'enemies'): Enemy Advances. We retreat. Enemy halts. We harass. Enemy tires. We attack. Enemy retreats. We pursue. My duty today: Fight. My duty tomorrow: Win. My duty daily: 'Die doing'. ( - slang, never surrender...never stop fighting). My duty forever: Act. The Worst thing is to Do Nothing. (Don Quixote). Time is the fire we burn in ('Star Trek').
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One who will hunt, but not stalk me like Duran Duran, Hungry Like the Wolf' as I want 'you tu becom watch? v=oOg5VxrRTi0 All Welcome. Why? I've accepted that there's Not ONE for me (1 billion is zero). Maybe one out of a 400 billion worlds as ours with 1 Billion gals. Otherwise, I don't know what yo...
One who will hunt, but not stalk me like Duran Duran, Hungry Like the Wolf' as I want 'you tu becom watch? v=oOg5VxrRTi0 All Welcome. Why? I've accepted that there's Not ONE for me (1 billion is zero). Maybe one out of a 400 billion worlds as ours with 1 Billion gals. Otherwise, I don't know what you and I can do and even help each other in other ways. None of this Joke: Friend only date the 'right one', an 'equal', (as) like him. Born 1931 and never dated to his grave (DOD 30.5.2016). Again, a joke and not possible, so scratch that. Now what I want must be 'The Impossible Dream.' You've (not the age range) had you careers, children, kids in college, marrying, divorces tiring of your hubby after 20 years or more. Now is a more self focus. phase. Not me. I'm starting as 30 years ago in a body 30 years later. No 'Faces or names of wives or sons or daughters.' What woman would mate with me to fulfill (fertile) the AIM? AIM: Impregnate (fresh eggs). ​Kids. ​Yours? Good! EXPERIENCED! Secretly want a woman to marry? Tell me all Your secrets. Bisexuality accepted, even preferred, as may understand polyamory human honesty. ESSENTIAL: Excellent communication, emotional intimacy and relationship skills, know yourself and OR LEARNING. PREFERRED: Dynamically interactive​; enterprising​. Very curious. SAME INTERESTS, BELIEFS OPTIONAL. Impossibly Perfect gal: Talk, Talk, Talk, likes history, medicine, economics, politics, cosmology, psychology, counseling / self-help, aerospace, news (addict, like me) / current events, board / card games, astronomy, NASA, physics, chemistry, mathematics and other sciences, only a few traits and want more. I'd like to meet a woman that is has Open wild side - as I hide. Jack (FAMILY MAN FILM, 2000, Nicolas Cage.) (SEEKING! Hehehe...): I wake up in the morning covered in dog saliva. I drop the kids off, spend 8 hours selling tires retail. Retail, Kate. I pick the kids up, walk the dog, which by the way, carries the added bonus of carting away her monstrous crap. I play with the kids, take out the garbage, get 6 hours of sleep if I'm lucky and then everything starts all over again. .... a life never lived and ... Now Impossible? DEAL BREAKERS: No uncooked meat to pass through the doors to home. From restaurant? O. K. No flesh that needs preparation, cooking. I don't nor won't cook anything with a brain. Occasionally at a place I eat it. A friend serves me. Otherwise, no. ​ Then Wasteful is intolerable. F​lexitarianism, vegan or vegetarianism, and thrifty. Don't care as 'Escape' to US or child's 'Daddy'. HOWEVER, if I'm not 'right ' for You, you'll condemn Yourself (and me) to a living hell with Loveless Sexless marriage. Even though I'm Honorable Don Quixote and not Juan Casanova, this is near deal breaker. You MUST Grab me and throw me on something somewhere as to say, and 'do it' to me. I'm as hot as the surface of the Sun of 5500 C with capabilities that outstrip my guy friends. Now, I know, and understand (as I've done research seeing 'demisexuality') you gals want quality – just one good one (demisexual spectrum – I'll explain later. I've written work.). I ask for up to three ( 3 ) chances in one day to get it right. Then unbelievably shocking and blow your mind. IN FILM In G. O. D. We Tru$t (1980), Brother Ambrose married a whore. I don't care if you are a 'Bar Girl' (Bible says Hosea 1:2) or a worker. Do you (a line in film.) care I'm a Supernerd? I'm accepting and understanding beyond 1 in a thousand.
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More About Me

Dutch

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
56
18 - 28
Lives in:
Columbus, Ohio, United States
South Africa
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Light Brown
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Curly
Any
Eye color:
Green
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
5'11" (181 cm)
Any
Weight:
105 kg (231 lb)
Any
Body style:
Large and Lovely
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Other, Arab (Middle Eastern), Asian, Caucasian (White), Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Pacific Islander
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
Don't Know
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Any
Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
No
Any
Number of children:
N/A
Any
Oldest child:
N/A
Any
Youngest child:
N/A
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Any
Employment status:
Part Time
Any
Income:
$0 - $30,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Apartment / Flat
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Any
Education:
Masters Degree
Any
Languages spoken:
English,German,Portuguese,Russian,Spanish
Any
Religion:
No religion
Any
Star sign:
Taurus
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Board / Card Games, Cars / Mechanics, Casino / Gambling, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Dining Out, Education, Investing / Finance, Karaoke / Sing-along, Library, Motorcycles, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology, Social Causes / Activism, TV: Educational / News

Food:

Vegetarian / Organic

Music:

Other, Dance / Techno, New Age, Pop, Soft Rock

Sport:

Other, Baseball / Softball

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