Please read this carefully, as it will save us both some time later on. I'm flipping the script - there is nothing normal or average about me! I am intelligent, hardworking, charming, and a bunch of other great things. While I respect that many of your are probably traditional, I like to challenge convention and tradition. If you envision a fairy-tale life with me, you're on the wrong wavelength. Think of a relationship with me as the perfect storm of East meets West, where we combine old and new ideas to forge our destiny. It will be either the greatest or worst experience of your life! (Wow, that's awesome, isn't it?!?) I've led a good life that has allowed me to live all over the United States: Chicago, New York City, Sacramento, San Antonio, Philadelphia, and some other smaller cities. I would like to travel abroad to learn about Asian culture, art, and history. I've never thought of myself as a guy with "Yellow Fever." My interest in Asian women is recent. When I was in college, I found the Asian women attractive and admirable, but I think I frightened them away. Even now, I'm not sure this is the right thing for me. However, if I don't try, I'll never know, right? Your friends will think you are insane for being interested in a guy like me. You will not have a traditional relationship with me. But if you're with me, that's kind of the point, isn't it? If you're in your 30's or 40's, and everything has always been sort of normal and traditional in your relationships, I submit that it is time for you to try something different. Or you can choose to have your life like it is. You're an adult, and obviously you make your own choices.