It would be be a great plus to have a partner who respects the bond between a parent and child and has the emotional and spirirtual maturity to both love me and my kids as well as motivate and guide us also. He would have to be in love with my Jesus and not feel left out or excluded by my pursuit of perfection through that relationship. Fun, laughter and family is high at the top of my agenda so he would have to be flexible and spontaneous at times as well as understanding that life doesn't always happen the way you planned. A good all round listener and communicator who is not afraid of a strong woman or taking on the responsibility of a ready made family....lol....He would have to be comfortable in being himself around me from the very beginning and willing to allow me to do the same, as i believe in honesty off the bat and being yourself wherever you go with whoever you may meet.